Traveling alone can be an exhilarating experience; not only does it allow you the freedom to try whatever activities or adventures you want, but you can also take the time to focus on yourself, your needs, and your relaxation. This is not always possible when you’re traveling with someone else, especially if you have children. Many single parents are opting for solo vacations nowadays in order to take a breather and come back refreshed. These trips can be especially essential to parents who have battled substance abuse, as they provide an opportunity for self-discovery and allow them to get away from the everyday stress that can become triggers for relapse.
It’s important to remember that there are some safety considerations to make when you’re traveling alone, however, especially if you’re in a different country where the language and laws are different. Preparing well ahead of time will ensure that you stay safe and perfectly relaxed–and sober–during your trip.
Here are some of the best ways to make traveling alone a joyous occasion.
Keep your touristy side on the down-low
It’s understandable to want to see and do everything you can while you’re in a new place, but people who are obviously tourists often get taken advantage of or are targeted by thieves. Do some research before you leave home, starting with how long it takes to get from the airport to your hotel. Ask your taxi driver for a fare estimate so you can ensure he won’t drive you around…and drive up the price.
Try to blend in with the residents. If you’re visiting a foreign country, this is especially important because it may be inappropriate to wear clothing you’d wear in the U.S. It may not be the most attractive option, but a fanny pack worn snugly on the front of your body will help you keep your money and phone safe while you’re walking around. Keep valuables at home, or ask your hotel if you can lock them up in the safe. Before going out for the day, consult maps and guidebooks from the privacy of your room rather than doing it on the street, which will draw attention to the fact that you’re a visitor.
Take considerations with your hotel, such as finding one that has a 24-hour check-in desk in case your flight is delayed or it takes longer to arrive than expected.
It’s also a good idea to enroll in the STEP program if you’re traveling internationally, as it will allow you to reach out to the State Department should you run into trouble.
Don’t be too trusting
Meeting new people on a solo trip can be a fun part of the experience, but don’t trust anyone too quickly. Keep your money and ID close to you at all times and, if you’re at a restaurant or club, don’t let anyone bring you a drink, no matter how nice they may seem. It’s not just okay to be overly cautious when you’re traveling alone, it’s also smart.
Traveling alone can get a bit…well, lonely, but it doesn’t have to be. Instead of focusing on the fact that you don’t have friends or family with you, revel in the quiet, the chance to choose the path of your day, and the opportunity to sit and eat a meal while reading a good book. Choose cafes that have patios so you can enjoy the local views and people, and don’t forget to relax.